I really hate the holidays.  Mostly because I have no family here, but not entirely.

I realized recently that Northern VA has finally become “home” to me.  I have now lived here longer than I lived in NY.

If I want to spend the holidays with my family, I have to travel 350 miles.  Also, *I* am the one that does the travelling.  If I don’t travel, I spend it alone.  However, when I do make the trip, I have begun to miss being home in Virginia.  There is something nice about spending the holidays at “home” though.

So, Thanksgiving will be…alone. Well, I do have my dog, but she doesn’t make for a good “dinner” companion really.  I have some friends where I could crash their Thanksgiving plans, but…they are doing big things with their families, and being the non-family member a huge family thing is…just as depressing as Thanksgiving alone.